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Harriette Cole: How long until I can ask my grieving roommate for the rent?

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

DEAR HARRIETTE: My roommate is suffering from a tough personal loss that has left them completely overwhelmed by grief.I understand and want to give them the space and support they need to process, but because they were so preoccupied, they seem to have forgotten to pay their half of the rent. I didn’t want to burden them, so I paid the full amount myself.When is the right time to ask them to pay me back?Awkward TimingDEAR AWKWARD TIMING: You were kind to step in in the way you did, but know that your kindness was also risky.Even during tough times, people have to be responsible for themselves. Hopefully, your roommate will make good on paying their portion of the rent.Related ArticlesAdvice | Harriette Cole: My husband just died, and my neighbor made a bothersome request Advice | Harriette Cole: How can I get out of paying for the car repair? Advice | Harriette Cole: I act like I have the answers, but my life is a wreck Advice |...

Miss Manners: The teacher says my little girl can’t wear her hat

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My 6-year-old daughter has had a best friend ever since the girls were old enough to notice there was another small person in the stroller next to them.During COVID, her mother and I arranged outdoor playdates and video calls. The girls are like sisters.Just before they were to enter kindergarten last year, the friend, “Jenna,” was diagnosed with a form of cancer with a very low survival rate.My daughter understands that a terrible sickness got into Jenna, and that the doctors will do everything they can, but her friend may have to go to Heaven. For the most part, she is handling the situation beautifully.But then there is the hat. My daughter decided that she and Jenna needed matching hats when Jenna’s hair began to fall out so that it would be a “fashion statement,” not a problem. She insists on wearing her hair in a bun and covering it with the hat so she and her friend match.Related ArticlesAdvice | Miss Manners: I don&...

Dear Abby: My wife won’t drive and says I should take her to work everyday

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

DEAR ABBY: I have recently retired after 40 years of working. My wife, who still works, thinks I should get up every morning and take her to work.We live in a big city where crime happens, so she doesn’t want to take the bus. Uber and Lyft are strangers to her. I tried teaching her to drive — even bought her a car — but she’d rather I take her.It’s a 40-mile round trip. The traffic is crazy at that time.If I refuse, there are usually hard feelings. I don’t want to do it every morning only to have to pick her up in the evening at major traffic time. What can I do?UNENTHUSED CHAUFFEURDEAR CHAUFFEUR: Uber and Lyft are more expensive than they used to be. Even if your wife were willing to drive herself, the cost of the vehicle, insurance and fuel would cost a bundle.Related ArticlesAdvice | Dear Abby: My hairstylist’s obsession has become really annoying Advice | Dear Abby: Am I overreacting to my European daughter-in-...

BBC chairman Richard Sharp quits over report into Boris Johnson loan

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

LONDON — BBC Chairman Richard Sharp will resign after a damning report into his appointment and a bitter row over a six-figure loan to Boris Johnson.Sharp, an ex-investment banker and Conservative donor, secured the top scrutiny role at the public broadcaster in February 2021, in a move signed-off by the then-prime minister.But, in a report published Friday, independent barrister Adam Heppinstall found Sharp failed to declare “potential perceived conflicts of interest” when going through the appointments scrutiny for the BBC post. He did not disclose his involvement in a process that saw Johnson secure an £800,000 loan while prime minister from the financier Sam Blyth.There was, the report said, “a risk of a perception that Mr Sharp was recommended for appointment because he assisted … the former prime minister in a private financial matter, and/or that he influenced the former prime minister to recommend him by informing him of his application before he subm...

Eurozone economy posts meager growth in first quarter

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

FRANKFURT — The eurozone economy expanded only slightly in the first quarter of the year, after stagnating at the end of last year, preliminary data released by Eurostat showed Friday.According to the release, seasonally adjusted GDP grew by 0.1 percent, disappointing analysts’ expectations for 0.2 percent growth. Compared to a year earlier, the economy expanded by 1.3 percent.In the wider EU, economic activity grew by 0.3 percent on the quarter and 1.3 percent on the year.Among the largest member countries for which data are available, Portugal (+1.6 percent) recorded the highest increase compared to the previous quarter, followed by Spain, Italy and Latvia (all +0.5 percent). Declines were recorded in Ireland (-2.7 percent) as well as in Austria (-0.3 percent).The year-on-year growth rates were positive for all countries except Germany, which contracted by 0.1 percent.According to Oxford Economics economist Rory Fennessy, there is no reason to tighten the seatbelts as growth...

UK annoys Brexiteers as it dampens bonfire of EU laws

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

LONDON — The U.K. government has poured cold water on long-touted plans for a bonfire of laws inherited from the EU after Brexit — and some Conservative Euroskeptics aren’t happy.During a briefing Monday on the Retained EU Law Bill, Business Secretary Kemi Badenoch told senior Tory Brexiteers that by December 31 the government will only bin 800 — or one in four — of the estimated 3,200 pieces of EU legislation which were automatically added to the U.K. statute book after Brexit.The bill introduces a controversial “sunset clause” that will automatically scrub EU retained laws that have not been changed or repealed by the end of this year. Advocates see that cull as a key Brexit dividend as the U.K. goes its own way, but the policy has been criticized by business groups for creating regulatory uncertainty.Badenoch told the group of MPs that her officials had concluded it is not possible to remove thousands of laws, according to people in the room who confirmed a Daily Telegraph story....

Jalen Suggs bounces back, delivers strong finish to second season with Magic

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

For Jalen Suggs, the first half of the Orlando Magic’s 2022-23 season followed a similar pattern to his short NBA career up to that point.Suggs, the No. 5 pick in the 2021 draft, struggled with injuries to start the season just like he did as a rookie when he played in 48 games.He appeared in 14 of the Magic’s first 38 games this past season, sitting multiple stretches because of right ankle ailments — the same ankle that sidelined him for 13 of the final 18 games of 2021-22 and required surgery to address a stress fracture.But then Suggs’ fortunes changed.He got healthy and mostly stayed that way during the second half of the season — which coincided with Suggs’ best stretch of play.“It was big time,” he said. “Because before, I was feeling really confident, had a good rhythm and flow going. That’s the hardest part about the injuries. It’s not coming back, it’s not the toll it takes on your body. It’s jus...

What Lamar Jackson’s extension means for the Ravens, Todd Monken, Eric DeCosta and more

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

Ravens quarterback Lamar Jackson agreed to a lucrative extension and Boston College wide receiver Zay Flowers realized his dream of becoming an NFL player Thursday, but neither had as good of a day as their future play caller: first-year offensive coordinator Todd Monken.The Ravens invested heavily in their offense Thursday, using their only pick of the first two rounds on a highly touted receiver and, of course, locking up their franchise quarterback. Jackson agreed to a five-year deal with the Ravens reportedly worth $260 million, including $185 million guaranteed. The per-year average of $52 million makes him the highest-paid NFL player in terms of annual salary.“Todd Monken had a good day today,” Ravens coach John Harbaugh said after the first round of Thursday’s NFL draft. “We’ve really upgraded our offense.”As recently as a couple of months ago, the Ravens’ offense looked thin. It was unknown if Jackson would remain with the team after...

Three takeaways from the Ravens’ big day, including Lamar Jackson’s deal and drafting WR Zay Flowers

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

On the same day they signed quarterback Lamar Jackson to a record-setting extension, the Ravens also made a draft pick: wide receiver Zay Flowers. Never have we seen the team’s first-round pick so completely overshadowed, but here are three takeaways from the team’s big day.The Ravens continued their recent theme, adding another exciting toy for their franchise quarterback.First, Odell Beckham Jr., now Flowers, one of the most gushed-over playmakers in this draft class.Jackson did not wait long to celebrate. “I’m smelling more good news dropping soon,” he tweeted just before the Ravens picked at No. 22 overall. “Well it happened,” he added when their pick was announced.The Ravens had their choice of two very good cornerbacks, long-armed Joey Porter Jr. of Penn State and ultra-athletic Baltimore native Deonte Banks. General manager Eric DeCosta said they also had opportunities to move down and add more picks. Instead, they added to a position...

Notable celebrity and newsmaker deaths of 2023

Published Sun, 01 Dec 2024 05:30:48 GMT

A look at the notable celebrities and newsmakers who died in 2023.Jerry SpringerJerry Springer, the onetime mayor and news anchor whose namesake TV show featured a three-ring circus of dysfunctional guests willing to bare all — sometimes literally — as they brawled and hurled obscenities before a raucous audience, died April 27, 2023, at 79. (Photo by Cindy Ord/Getty Images)Harry BelafonteAward-winning actor, singer and activist Harry Belafonte, a persistent and outspoken voice for justice and racial equality in the United States and around the world, died April 25, 2023, at age 96, his representative confirmed. (Arthur Pollock/Boston Herald)Len GoodmanLen Goodman, a long-serving judge on “Dancing with the Stars” and “Strictly Come Dancing” who helped revive interest in ballroom dancing on both sides of the Atlantic, died on April 22, 2023, his agent said. He was 78. (Photo by Simon Burchell/Getty Images)Barry Humphries, Dame EdnaTony Award-winning comedian Barry Humphries, internat...